047: An Everyday Life You Love. Interview with Gaby Sundra
Our guest in this episode, Gaby, created a free gift page just for you.
Head on over to www.forbetter.love/breakthrough to claim it.
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“Your beloved that you choose is perfect for opening up your unhealed wounds, but they have very little skill for healing them. If you take responsibility to know what your own childhood wounds are, know what the needs are underneath those wounds and, how to get those needs met - both by self meeting your needs and clearly communicating your needs to your beloved - AND you're willing to teach your beloved those skills, that's when that person becomes more whole and complete themselves.” ~ Gaby Sundra
I believe that relationships are part of what makes our lives beautiful and worth living. So why is it that we often wait until they’re in crisis mode before we even think of proactively doing anything to help keep them alive and healthy?
Just like it is with our mental health, it’s good to have a plan to support the health of a romantic relationship and critical to have things in place to help when times are tough.
This is exactly what I'm talking about in this episode with my guest, Gaby Sundra, the Love Trifecta Coach, bringing more play, peace, and passion to relationships worldwide.
While Gaby has a Master's degree in Education, Counseling, and Guidance and 25 years of coaching and teaching experience, it is her own “messy-to-magical” marriage that allows her relationship guidance to be so spot on. Her innovative methods at For Better Love are fiercely forward-focused, gently shifting any negativity into concrete action steps. And you know I like that, dear listener. She’s a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship ditch, but cultivating a couple culture of "aiming for awesome".
Gaby and I talked about:
- Creating an everyday marriage you love;
- Being intentional about what you create; and,
- Having tools and systems in place to support you.
She also left us with a Question of the week: What do you want?
What do you want? Most of us default to focusing on who is to blame for what we do not want. Focus on what you want, find the overlap and be partners in THAT. True up to your shared vision. What do you want? How could you true up to that positive and empowering vision?
Find the question of the week post on my Instagram or Facebook @productivitybreakthrough and let me know.
And remember to head on over to www.forbetter.love/breakthrough for the free gift page she created just for you!
